Post by Gabby Brocklehurst on Mar 9, 2008 9:33:40 GMT -5
Dear Auntie,
I know what women want; unfortunately, the one I want most isn't willing to share, leaving me a one-trick pony. This being the first time I've played the monogamy game, I'm feeling stifled. Not to mention the girl who got away. In order to be with one girl, I had to give up another that I might care about.
So my problem is: do I stay with a girl who's my opposite because the conversation is great, or do I let her go for the other girl? I've only slipped up once, but I don't know if it could happen again. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Made my Bed and Lying in it
Dear Made my Bed and Lying in it,
It sounds like you're having problems staying exclusive to one girl. This could mean that subconciously you aren't as commited to the relationship as you think you are; it seems that you two are great friends, but is there anything more? Is your current relationship worth more than the one you could be having with the other girl? And are you truly sure this other girl is worth ending your current relationship for.
If you feel that you definitely want to be with the girl who got away, then maybe you should end your current relationship. If you then start a relationship with your other girl and it's what you really want, you should have no trouble staying faithful to her.
These are matters of the heart, so the best advice I can give you is to listen to what it's saying, the answers are probably in there. Ask yourself these questions and you will find the answers. Also, don't try and play both girls at once, because then you might end up with neither.
Sincerely, Agony Aunt
I know what women want; unfortunately, the one I want most isn't willing to share, leaving me a one-trick pony. This being the first time I've played the monogamy game, I'm feeling stifled. Not to mention the girl who got away. In order to be with one girl, I had to give up another that I might care about.
So my problem is: do I stay with a girl who's my opposite because the conversation is great, or do I let her go for the other girl? I've only slipped up once, but I don't know if it could happen again. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Made my Bed and Lying in it
Dear Made my Bed and Lying in it,
It sounds like you're having problems staying exclusive to one girl. This could mean that subconciously you aren't as commited to the relationship as you think you are; it seems that you two are great friends, but is there anything more? Is your current relationship worth more than the one you could be having with the other girl? And are you truly sure this other girl is worth ending your current relationship for.
If you feel that you definitely want to be with the girl who got away, then maybe you should end your current relationship. If you then start a relationship with your other girl and it's what you really want, you should have no trouble staying faithful to her.
These are matters of the heart, so the best advice I can give you is to listen to what it's saying, the answers are probably in there. Ask yourself these questions and you will find the answers. Also, don't try and play both girls at once, because then you might end up with neither.
Sincerely, Agony Aunt